Because not everything (or everyone) needs to come with you.

Moving to a new city sounds exciting… until you’re staring at a closet full of chaos wondering what’s worth taking. Whether you’re relocating across the country or just starting fresh, packing smart will save your wallet, your sanity, and your back.

Let’s break it down: what’s essential, what’s dead weight, and what you’ll kick yourself for forgetting.

✅ What to Pack

1. Important Documents

Birth certificate, social security card, passport, lease, insurance, medical records. Put them in a folder and don’t let it out of your sight.

2. Season-Appropriate Clothes Only

Be realistic. If you’re moving to San Diego, you don’t need 4 snow jackets. Pack for your new climate, not your “what if” brain.

3. A “First Week” Box

One box or suitcase with:

  • 1–2 outfits
  • Toiletries
  • Meds
  • Chargers
  • Towel + sheets
  • Snacks
  • Paper towels + toilet paper
    Make your arrival feel less like survival.

4. Sentimental But Small Items

Photos, a letter from someone you love, a childhood trinket—things that make you feel grounded without weighing you down.

5. Basic Kitchen Setup

Not the air fryer. Just:

  • 1 pot
  • 1 pan
  • 1 mug, plate, bowl, fork, spoon, knife
    You’ll upgrade once you settle in.

🚫 What to Leave Behind

1. “Someday” Clothes

If you haven’t worn it in 6 months and it doesn’t spark joy or usefulness—donate it.
New city, new you. You’ll buy stuff that fits your new vibe.

2. Books You’ll Never Read Again

They’re heavy. They don’t spark enough joy to justify the cost. Take 2 favorites max. Kindle everything else.

3. Your High School Yearbooks (Yes, Really)

Scan your favorite pages and move on. You won’t be flipping through them during a breakdown in your new apartment. Promise.

4. Cheap Furniture That’s Already Falling Apart

The cost of moving it is usually more than it’s worth. If IKEA wouldn’t sell it, you probably don’t need to keep it.

5. People Who Make You Feel Small

Okay, not a packing item. But worth noting. Moving is a reset. You don’t owe everyone access to your new life.

💡 Bonus: What You’ll Wish You Had Packed

  • Scissors
  • Surge protector
  • Trash bags
  • Shower curtain
  • A go-to comfort item (don’t leave your blankie if you’re still that girl)

Final Thoughts

Moving is overwhelming—but it’s also a chance to let go of what doesn’t serve you.
So pack light. Pack smart. And leave room for who you’re becoming.

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